How to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start taking action

GIG-OS
3 min readAug 26, 2020

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When problems attack one after another and it seems that the plans are not destined to be fulfilled, you need to ask yourself a question: “Who am I in this situation?”

There are only two possible answers to this question:

1. I am a victim of the situation, nothing depends on me.

2. I am the one who has the strength to cope with the situation and win.

The first answer puts you in the position of a loser a priori. If you decide that nothing depends on you, then doing anything is useless. You just wait for the storm to pass, leaving you on the ruins of your dreams.

In the second case, you are giving yourself a chance to overcome difficulties. This is the position of a person who does not intend to give up and is ready to take action.

The choice of the answer depends not only on the type of one’s character and personal life experience.

Willingness to confront problems largely depends on the presence or absence of a clearly defined goal.

In most cases, the first answer can be expected from a person who does not have a clearly defined path in life. In this regard, it is hardly surprising that any difficulties cause confusion and fear to take a step forward. If you don’t know where you are going, every intersection seems like an unsolvable task.

The second answer is given by someone who is confident in the chosen path. It is easier for such a person to bypass obstacles and follow the right path at a crossroads, because he/she has a compass in the form of a goal. That kind of person perceives obstacles not as a catastrophe, but only as temporary difficulties, behind which the desired success awaits.

Ask yourself: “Which of these two personalities do I want to be?”

The one who always gives up and complains about life, or the one who continues to fight and wins?

If you have chosen the second option, then you probably already understand what the next step is: SETTING THE RIGHT GOAL.

To accomplish this task as effectively as possible, we recommend using the GoalSet Master — a special tool for working on goals on the GIG-OS platform.

It will help you establish a clear guideline in life and adhere to it despite the circumstances. By using GoalSet Master, you will realize your potential and start taking specific actions to achieve your goal. There will be no time and reason to be sad and feel sorry for yourself. By setting an example, you can inspire others and attract those who will support you.

Start a new life right now!

SET A GOAL

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